How can the spare tire take back the initiative against the guest? In fact, this question is first analyzed, why do girls treat you as a spare tire, then there are three reasons:
1. Did not meet the expectations of girls
Your conditions are okay but not meet her expectations, she can only settle for second place when there is no better choice, but her heart is ready to move, and she is afraid that she will miss a better one after being with you, and over time you will become a spare tire.
In the face of this kind of thing you can only improve yourself and meet her expectations, I believe you can’t do it in a short period of time, except to prepare for the long-term front and the right way to improve, there is no good way.
2. Girls have too many choices
There are more choices around her, everyone is in good condition, she has been hesitating, not knowing which one to choose, in the process of wandering, it has naturally become a spare tire.
This situation can be solved, many people have similar conditions to you, but why choose you? There is only one reason, because he is with you every day, only when you find that you have become a girl’s spare tire, you only have one solution is to find an opportunity to chat with her every day, during the chat process you find that she is bored, find her alone, find that she has nothing to do, immediately invite her to meet, he spends more time with you, naturally chats with other men and has less time to meet, over time you take up most of the time in his life, other boys are naturally slowly alienated by her, From the perspective of other men, they will slowly become cold, and if they are cold, you will be more enthusiastic, and you will naturally succeed as soon as you retreat and enter.
3. Don’t look down on your value
She doesn’t like your conditions at all, but you can provide some additional value, such as companionship, material things, and other things… Then girls are with you because of interests, and what they want from you is value rather than feelings.
In the face of this situation, if the girl is connected to you because of the value, I suggest that you continue to provide your value, and then make the value you provide a necessity in her life, just say that when you don’t provide this value, her life will become worse, it will become bad, she will have a gap in her heart, at this time temporarily stop being good to her, and then try to talk to her about feelings, many times girls will be confused whether they are attached to you or because of the conditions, then at this time, she is often with you inexplicably when she is not clear in judgment.